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The Best Shampoos For Natural 4C Hair Textures

December 11, 2020 beauty

Natural hair is beautiful. That’s it. That’s the post. Ok but seriously, natural hair is such a sight to see as so many more Black and Latino women embrace their curly kinky strands. One of the challenges will “going natural” is finding the right products. I will be starting a series here on the blog to help you find the best products for natural hair. In today’s post, we will be discussing the best shampoos for 4C hair. 

This is not to say these products cant be used on every texture of natural hair. I’m simply stating that since 4C hair usually needs a bit more moisture. So my desire to talk about shampoos for 4C hair is to cover most hair types. 4C hair is made up of tightly coiled hair strands with a tight zig-zag pattern. Type 4C hair has no defined curl pattern however, it can be defined by twisting or braiding the strands. In my professional opinion, it is the most fragile hair type. As they say, “shrinkage is real” because this texture of hair is more prone to shrinkage and dryness.

shampoo for 4c natural hair

What must shampoos for natural 4C hair do?

Shampoos for 4C hair must retain moisture levels in the hair. They must also refrain from stripping the natural oils from the hair while cleansing. So with that in mind, I compiled a list of shampoos I use professionally and personally on my clients and my hair. As I stated earlier, these shampoos are not ONLY recommended for 4C hair. If your hair is in need of a hydrating and conditioning cleanse these shampoos are for you. 

Shea Moisture Jamaican Castor Oil Shampoo

Amika Triple Rx Shampoo

Creme of Nature Argan Oil Moisture & Shine Shampoo

Design Essentials Honey Creme Moisture Retention Shampoo

Mielle Mongongo Oil Exfoliating Shampoo

Aphogee Shampoo

KeraCare Hydrating Detangling Shampoo

Camille Rose Sweet Ginger Cleansing Rins

Supreme Oil Shampoo

Aussie Mega Moist Shampoo

In a previous post HERE I shared my number tip to finding the best shampoo not only for your hair but for your scalp. His is how I find shampoos that won’t irritate my scalp and how I compiled this list. If you want to learn how I deep condition and steam my hair at home this video tutorial is also a must-watch HERE.

Next Up: Best Deep Conditioners and Hair Mask For Natural Hair

Top 10 Reasons Your Edges Are Thinning And Breaking

December 9, 2020 beauty

Top 10 reasons your edges are thinning and breaking

Why are my edges thinning and breaking? How can I regrow my edges? If I had a dollar for the number of times I get these questions each day I would be a thousandaire lol. Seriously, I either get this question from new salon clients and or subscribers from my Youtube channel daily. I figured it was time to get tell it like it is. A little about me for those of you who may be new here. I’ve been a licensed cosmetologist for well over 18 years. Wow, I can’t believe I just wrote that. Am I telling my age lol? As such, I have quite a history of dealing with thinning edges as a professional and woman who has had children. I will touch more on that later on in this post. 

Thinning edges is a form of traction alopecia. 

Traction alopecia is hair loss that’s caused by constant pulling and twisting of the hair. You can develop traction alopecia if you often wear your hair in tight ponytails, braids, weaves, and especially if you use excessive chemicals or heat on your hair. Traction alopecia is the number one cause for edges thinning and breaking.

As a cosmetologist, I have a straightforward approach. I will tell you how and why then offer you solutions to fix the problem. This is what we will be doing in today’s post. I will give you some of the most common reasons for thinning edges. 

Let’s start with some good news first.

Can I Regrow My Thinning Edges

 Many of the reasons why your edges are thinning is because of things within your control. Yes, you read that right, YOU are the problem, ma’am. Secondly, health issues such as hormonal imbalances and pregnancy can be reversed to regrow the hair. Lastly, it happens to the best of us. I myself have had to deal with thinning edges and regrowing my hair back after doing my hair too tightly and after hair loss due to pregnancy. 

So I know the struggle all too well. You are not alone. 

In many cases, YES. You can regrow your thinning and breaking edges. It will take a little bit of work and a ton of consistency but it can happen. Below I will share my secret ingredient to regrowing your edges. Keep reading.

10 Reasons Why Your  Edges Are Thinning and Breaking

  • Over manipulation
  • Tight hairstyles
  • Lack of moisture
  • Wrong Products
  • Stress and hormones
  • Dirty styling tools
  • Your Diet 
  • Bonnets and Scarves
  • Excessive heat styling
  • Attending YouTube University… CHILE

Now of course there are many other factors which can lead to thinning edges and balding. This post will deal with the most common factors. 

Let’s find out why you are experiencing this and get you on the fast track to healthy hair. 

Over Manipulation

 The stress of consistent pulling, twisting, braiding of the hair causes edges to thin. I may sound like a broken record here but less is more. I know social media has given us a bit more reasons to restyle and change up our look. We need new pictures for Instagram right? But I would advise you to change up your outfit more than your hairstyle. You do NOT need a new hairstyle every other week. Over manipulation of the hair causes strain on your precious strands and can lead to unnecessary breakage. Again, less is more. This leads me to our next topic. 

Tight Hairstyles

 In the beginning stages of my career, I was under the impression that styling the hair tightly would give the client more usage and long term wear of the style. WRONG! The same applies to you. Do not for a second believe that tight equals right. So those micro braids and tight sew-ins are a thing of the past. We want to prevent our edges from thinning and breaking. If you need to take pain medicine before or after a hair appointment please find another stylist. Tight hairstyles are the leading cause overall breakage within the hair. This is why traction alopecia is so common in the African American community. 

Let your scalp breathe

 Not all protective styles are created equal. Of course, we have braids, twists, weaves, and wigs. If not done properly they do more harm than good. As it relates to your scalp, lace front wigs are all the rave right now. They allow you to get a realistic look without any heat styling to the natural hair. Here’s the problem. To apply your lace wigs you must use some form of adhesive. It can be the gel and hairspray technique (SHOWN HERE) or the lace glue method. In an attempt to protect your hair from manipulation one can wear wigs and weave for too long. This doesn’t allow the scalp to breathe and the hairline usually experiences the damage first. The product build-up and lack of cleansing cause bacteria to form and will destroy your hairline. Thus leading to thin and balding edges.

Most people believe their hair with an itchy and flaky scalp when in fact they have an overgrowth of bacteria forming. Seek out a licensed stylist or medical professional to learn the difference. They will be sure to help you stop your hair and edges from thinning and breaking.

While on this topic. A consistent wash day schedule and routine would do wonders for a healthy scalp. As I said, I can talk about this until I’m blue in the face lol. 

Product Selection 

As much as I am a stickler for weekly or bi-weekly wash days for textured hair. The products used are just as important. Since we are discussing thinning edges we need to focus on products that provide moisture to the hair as well as stimulate the hair follicles for continued scalp growth and cell turnover. I will create a later post talking about hair oils I recommend for regrowing the scalp. But for now, I want you to do this. 

Go into your current stash of hair products. Look for oils that contain castor oil and Vitamin D or E. If your hair oils have one or all of these ingredients you can continue to use them. One of my favorite ingredients for regrowing edges is pure Jamaican black castor oil. This is a sure way to stop edges from thinning and breaking. I also have a video tutorial on how I used rice water to strengthen my hair, you can view it HERE.

Here are a few of my favorites. Here, Here, and Here

Stress and Hormonal imbalance: 

Stress will wreak havoc on your body and your mind. As a salon owner, I too have to find ways to keep stress at bay. Stress is typically indicated by the loss of long strands from the hair. This is also known as shedding. However, the stress of being a woman can be seen around the hairline first. Have you ever seen an M style patch missing from the hairline? That’s hair loss due to stress. INSERT PICTURE. Hormone imbalances are not my area of expertise so I would highly advise you to speak to your health care provider and have your hormone levels tested. Also, a low or overactive thyroid can also cause hair loss and thinning edges. 

Dirty styling tools

Now, this may seem like a given but unsanitary combs and brushes is another cause of your edges thinning and breaking. Listen, I learned how to do hair in the inner city when there was one comb for the entire house, and to be honest, I don’t ever remember seeing it being cleaned. Now let’s go even further, before I owned my salon I worked in salons that did not check for proper sanitation practices. If you knew some of the things I’ve seen over the years, YUCK.
With this, please make sure you keep your combs and brush clean and sanitary. When I say clean your hairbrushes that does not mean take the comb and remove the hair lol. I want you to soak your stying tools with soap and warm water. Do not share them with your girlfriends when they come over and make sure they are free of product buildup. Black women can get lice too and if you’ve never seen lice google it. It’s not pretty. 

Diet: 

You are what you eat. If you think you can eat hot Cheetos and diet coke and have long, thick, healthy hair you are wrong. As it relates to thinning edges, a proper diet will encourage cell turnover. This will result in the hair follicle being stimulated to produce new hair growth. Drink your water also. Your hair and skin will thank you for it.

Hair Scarves and Bonnets: 

Your nighttime routine is very important when maintaining healthy hair and your hairstyle. Making sure you apply a scarf or bonnet while you sleep is a great way to protect your hair. Silk and satin materials are best as they provide a smooth surface for the hair to be wrapped in. Remember, cotton absorbs, so any oil in the hair will be absorbed in cotton scarves and pillowcases. This is why you may experience thinning edges. Secondly, make sure your bonnets are not too tight. The elastic inside the bonnet can also cause tension around the hairline. Remember your edges are fragile. You want your bonnet tight enough to stay on all night but not enough to rub your edges away. 

Excessive Heat Styling: 

Now that the hot comb is readily available to everyone I have seen an increase in its usage. A hot comb is a heated tool that straightens the hair and is typically used around the hairline to smooth out the hair for updos and silk press hairstyles. I am all for women learning to maintain their hairstyles at home however like most hot tools, temperature control is key. When using heated hair styling tools one must take preventative measures to make sure they are protecting their hair strands from the heat.

 Excessive heat damage around the hairline will cause thinning and breakage on the edges.  One of the ways to prevent excessive heat damage is to apply a heat protectant to the hair before styling. Additionally, lower the temperature on your styling tools to a medium-low setting. 

Another great way to prevent heat damage while styling is to only use your flat iron and hot combs on your hair strands one to two times per application. That means, your styling tools should only pass through your hair strands once or twice. Do not flat iron that same section of hair four and five times.  Make sure you do not have excessive product build-up when applying heated styling tools to your hair. It will also cause your hair to burn under extreme temperatures which will result in hair breakage and thinning. 

Youtube University: 

I’m going to keep this as short and shade free as I possibly can but girl…

Do you realize anyone can create a Youtube channel? Do you also know that everyone is not qualified to give advice on your hair? Some of your favorite guru’s don’t even have edges and have videos that have gone viral, chile.. Ok, I said I was gonna try and not be petty so let me start over. Listen, sis, do not attend Youtube University. 

This means listening to tips from random people online who are paid by brands to promote products that thin your edges and cause hair loss. Then treating their word like it came from the hair bible. You have to be very particular about which influencers you follow. Now, to be fair, I was on YouTube for years before my subscribers knew I was a professional stylist. Additionally, there are plenty of gurus who have never attended cosmetology school and their information is spot on. When in doubt consult a professional.

All hair textures are not the same. If you follow the hair charts (which I don’t) and it says you are 3C hair type your favorite guru will tell you to use blank product. The issue with this is they don’t know your hair’s ability to retain moisture (porosity) or any underlying scalp issues you may have. What if you have dermatitis or eczema of the scalp? You may not be able to use these products or the product may contain alcohol which can cause your hair to break and thin. See where I’m going with this? Find a credible source and remember to still do your own independent research. 

why are my edges thinning and breaking

Here Are A Few More Tips To Prevent Edges From Thinning And Breaking

  • Stop using that toothbrush to lay your edges. It’s made for hard teeth, not fragile hairlines.
  • How much gel and edge control are you gonna use before you wash your hair? Wash your hair sis.
  • DO NOT relax just your hairline. Remember it is the most fragile and chemical processing breaks down the hair structure. 
  • Use alcohol-free products on your edges.
  • Remove your lace frontal wigs properly.
  • Do not apply glue to your hairline. 
  • Leave-in conditioners and detanglers are great for the hair, use them often. 
  • Apply products to the scalp and rub them in to stimulate blood flow to that area.
  • Deep conditioning your hair will restore moisture levels. Deep conditioning is key. 
  • Rinse out products properly. If you are rinsing your hair and still see bubbles near the drain KEEP RINSING. This is a telltale sign you still have product left in your hair.
  • Also, when you finish washing your hair it should not feel like silk. Soft hair yes, silky No. This is also usually a sign you still have product left in your hair. This is most usual for textured and curly hair types.

Now that you know my top reasons for your edges thinning and balding I want you to create a plan of action to regrow your hair. I will list a few helpful videos below that will help you maintain and grow your hair. Remember, stick to a hair regime and avoid unnecessary styling. You’re beautiful enough already. 

Next Up: Best Shampoos For Natural Hair|20 Deep Conditioners and Hair Mask

Best Sunscreen For Hyperpigmentation

December 7, 2020 beauty

 We all know that dark skin is rich with melanin and blessings from God. I am proud of the richness in my skin and thankful for skin kissed by the sun. The problem is the sun is still kissing. I mean, is there such a thing as too much sun? Well, the answer is yes. Too much sun can be harmful to the skin and dark skin is not immune. For many years I, like many others, was under the impression that dark skin was an invisible cap to the sun and would protect me from things such as hyperpigmentation and skin cancer. Let me tell you, I learned the hard way because it would be years before I knew the effects of sun damage to the skin.

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The Best Shape Wear For Curvy Girls-Femme Shapewear

December 2, 2020 beauty

Let’s get these waistlines snatched. I’m really not playing, this level up is about to be so official. In today’s video I doing a try-on haul of some waist trainers from Femme Shapewear. Femme Shapewear was nice enough to send me over some of their best selling items and I wanted to try them on and show you in real-time how they work. As you will see in today’s video these shapewear pieces are everything they claim to be.

Items mentioned in this video:

To see all the waist trainers, click HERE. DISCOUNT code is CHIMERE for 10% off.

#1: GRAY Neoprene Waist Trainer with Two Velcro Belts

#2: Red Brace & Support Neoprene Belt

#3: Zip and Clip Strapless Neoprene Waist Trainer

#4: Latex Black Waist Trainer 3 Hooks:

#5: Zip and Clip Neoprene Waist Trainer Vest

I’ve been wearing my Femme shapewear since I received it and it has been amazing. I have seen so many changes in my physique and it also helps with my posture. I often hunch my shoulders and that’s not a good look at all. My clothes look better on and I also use my shapewear in the gym. I noticed that I sweat more in my midsection and it is undetectable underneath my clothing. 

 2021 is the year of the level up. I am making so many changes in my professional and personal life and my health of course takes priority as well. In order to do your best, you must look your best and Femme shapewear is getting me on my way.  Don’t forget to check out my other post where I talked about how I plan on leveling up in 2021.

Next Up: How To Level Up Your Life In 2021

Outre Ashani Quick Weave Unboxing Video Review

November 16, 2020 beauty

One thing that you should learn about me is I absolutely love hair. It has been a passion of mine for well over 20 years and as a licensed cosmetologist and salon owner you can kind of see how much I love it. One of the things that fuel my passion for hair is that I’m able to find new and innovative ways to share hair tips and hair secrets. One of the things that I specialize in at my hair salon is hair extensions in hair weaves. So when I came across this Outre Ashani wig I was immediately intrigued.

Today I’m going to be sharing with you a quick and easy way to achieve the perfect quick weave hairstyle. If you are not up on all of the hair trends currently on the market. The hottest hair trend right now is headband wigs. These are essentially half wigs or weaves that we make look natural. By applying a headband of our choice and changing the headband to accommodate the outfit of the day or to change up the hairstyle. I’m going to show you how I turned this $15 wig into a 10-minute hairstyle. Anyone can achieve and it’s perfect for any woman on the go. 

Speaking of trends, make sure you check out my previous post where I shared some of my favorite fall fashion trends. They would look beautiful with your new hairstyle. I mean, hey. Start your 2021 level up today.

Wig Details

Outre Synthetic Half Wig: Style Ashani Color 1B

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